The Seduction of Self-Help

There’s a big difference between learning about change and actually changing. A lot of money has been made living in that gap. Tony Robbins is an obvious example. He figured out something simple and true: people want to change. They want clarity. They want to feel like they’re moving toward a better version of themselves.Continue reading “The Seduction of Self-Help”

Honesty

The hardest person to be honest with is ourselves. Not because we lack the ability to tell the truth, but because we are deeply attached to what we already know. Our collected knowledge—our beliefs, habits, and justifications—is how we navigate the world. We cherish it. We protect it. And that makes self-honesty far more difficultContinue reading “Honesty”

All Roads Lead to Consistency

What gets done consistently gets done. Things need to get done. Big and small. Each little thing contributes to the big thing we want. If something needs to get done, it needs to be worked on. There’s no escaping it. It can be avoided, put off, or shoved in a drawer. The longer we wait,Continue reading “All Roads Lead to Consistency”